Coaching

Happy Thursday!

Today I’m writing to you about coaching.

Coaching is like leadership, it is a privilege and an honor and it is something we take seriously at Fit Body Boot Camp.

Many of our coaches, come from a sports background where they have been coached by exceptional professionals and some are currently coaching athletes.

But what is a coach? 

What does a coach do? 

A coach is a person who helps to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… (Martin Rooney)

A coach helps you to believe in yourself more. 

A coach asks you to ask more of yourself. 

A coach inspires you to become the best version of yourself you can be…  <—this always being a work in progress, of course :) because let’s be honest, we never peak right? We can always be getting better, until we near our end.

I have had some great coaches in my life.

I’ve also had some terrible ones.  Currently I have tennis coaches, business coaches, a leadership coach and a therapist.  They are all helping me to become better versions of me.

To date, I’ve done some really good coaching- and helped people to see incredible successes- and I’ve failed too.

But that’s like all things in life, and to be honest I’ve done a lot more “failing” than I have succeeding.

How about you, can you think of a time when you had great coaching? 

I’m hoping if you are a client you can think of many…and if you aren’t then perhaps you are looking for a coach?

As we wrap up our New Year’s Revolution Challenge, and as we are doing our Body Transformation Challenge I am excited to see how everyone is doing.

But mostly I’m excited to see how our clients have reached, stretched, and aimed just a little higher than they might of because their coaches asked them too…

Will you aim a little higher too?

Remember, your coaches and I are here for YOU.

This is about you, and your journey and if you don’t have a relationship with a coach, we want you to… sometimes it can take some trial and error.  I can think of several clients I’ve worked with who had a better relationship with one of the other coaches and so we switched it up and things gained momentum.

What we need at any given time varies, and it isn’t personal. 

But what we all need is a coach. 

We all need 

Someone who believes in us. 

Someone who tells us we can do it. 

Someone who doesn’t let us give up, even when we stuff things up (because mark my words, the stuffing up is inevitable)

And mostly, we all need someone who will help us get from where we ​are to where we want to go…

Megan K and the team

PS the door is open, come see me or one of us…

I would love to hear from you…I know I don’t know all of you but I’d sure like to and when I can (if you are asking for it) I’m here to help.

Changing Habits through replacing Behaviors

Happy Thursday!

This week I’m writing to you with a little trick I learned from our Director of Client Services Rachael Duval. She uses this to wean herself from bad habits, and it has worked for other clients and me too. :)

A little back story though, when Rachael first came to us, she was going through a really really rough time. Her husband had just passed away and she was trying to figure out how to navigate life as a new widow and single mom.

She told me that her pattern was to drink far too much wine and eat to help ease the pain. (This is not confidential information, so please understand I’m not spilling the beans on a secret)

After she began Boot Camp and things gradually began to shift for her. She started feeling better, she was building more confidence, she saw increases in her energy and she wanted to change her lifestyle.

About a year in, is when she decided she wanted to start to change her eating and drinking habits.

She told me recently that what helped her cut WAY back on her wine consumption was to buy bad wine.

I laughed but I was intrigued. Bad wine? Yuck, right?

She said that when she had bad wine in the house she would poor a smaller glass, have a few sips and then be done with it.

With good wine she wanted more…

She wonders, as I have often wondered about habits, if it wasn’t the act of pouring something “special” into a glass and taking the time to slow down and enjoy it that was the thing she longed for rather than the wine itself. 

Now wine is a tricky subject because I realize that there are some of us out there who are facing serious addictions to alcohol. I’m not saying that this will work for you, if you have an addiction. In that situation you may need help from a professional, but if you’re looking to swap out an unproductive behavior (that isn’t necessarily an addiction) this could work. It has for other clients and for me.

Many of you don’t know that I used to smoke.

When I decided to be done with that solo evening cigarette, I HAD TO REPLACE it with something else.

What I loved about that time was that I was alone, unwinding and at peace, but I didn’t want to fill my lungs with poison anymore while I was doing it…

I chose t.v. for a while.  Zoned out, uninterrupted etc. And now I prefer a few minutes of reading and meditation.

But the trick was that I needed to replace the behavior.

The ritual was important. The routine was necessary.

We all have things that we are doing that interfere with our progress…

  • ​Staying up too late
  • Watching just one more episode
  • Flipping through social media right before bed, or in bed
  • Hitting the snooze button and skipping the a.m. workout
  • Seeking out a sweet right before bed…

You get to decide if it is important to you to change that behavior. If it is impeding your progress, it is probably time to find a replacement for the habit. 

Test it out.

See if it helps.

I hope it does.

We are here for you,

Megan K and the team

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You Can Do It

Happy Friday!

We are one month into the new year.

How are things going for you?

This week, my message is short and sweet:

1)You can do it.

You can actually do whatever IT IS that you want, if you are willing to put in the time and energy.

2)We believe in you.

Megan K and the team,

PS

Remember that it takes time to get to your goals…sometimes that time is years.

Break your goals into smaller chunks but never lose sight of the big picture.

PPS I want to give photo credit to this beautiful Yogi but I can’t find out who she is.

But this pretty much sums up what I mean about having patience with the processScreen-Shot-2018-01-14-at-1.55.58-PM.pngess…

Consistency is the key

Happy Friday-

Head Coach Jenny Donovan and Office Manager Roseanne Stephens and I were in Grand Rapids, MI meeting with several other Fit Body Boot Camp owners and operations managers discussing strategies to make our locations even better  results delivering spots.

We came back pumped!

A little tired, but pumed :)

This week, we announced our clients of the month and I want to take the pep talk to talk about what it is that these two fabulous clients are doing.

1- They are showing up- ​consistently

​2- They are bringing a positive attitude- ​consistently

​3- They are setting goals and working toward them.

4- They are uplifting and welcoming toward others.

5- They are coachable.  When they need help, the ask for it and then take the advice. :)

^^ the journey is exactly that, a journey but the above steps are things that are within our control that we can do to make it more enjoyable.

Thank you Denise D from Maple Grove and Melisa P S from SLP for being our fabulous clients of the month!

Have a fantastic week Fit Bodies!

Remember you can do it, consistency is the key.

Megan K and the team

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Denise D from Maple Grove Denise-D.jpgPPS

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Motivation is an intention

Hi everyone!

This week’s pep talk is about motivation.

From time to time I hear from clients “I’ve lost my motivation” or “I just can’t seem to make myself do xyz”.

The great and tricky thing about motivation is that it comes from within. 
Motivation is a choice. This means that if your motivation fire dims, you can refuel it or rekindle it. If you “lose” the motivation fire, it is also up to you to find it…

One of my favorite author’s Brendan Bruchard writes in his book The Motivation Manifesto:

“Motivation is not an impulse of the body or a personality trait; it is an intention and will of a free and conscious mind. Motivation and pursoe are choices. The only thing needed to spark motivation is a decision to heighten your ambition and expectancy- to sit down, think about what you desire, and believe you can go get it. To keep that motivation, you must give constant attention and effort.”

Most of us are working toward goals of some kind and it is very normal to experience ebb and flow in excitement, enthusiasm and willingness to do the work. The reality is that the more we do the work, and show up (<—consistency), the easier it become and in turn the more motivated we will be.
Very rarely is the pursuit of a goal we are after, always going to be easy.

Hang in there.
Remember that how we show up in life is our choice and we can always choose to do better.

We believe in you,
Megan K and the team

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You Get To Choose

Hello!
What if I told you that in part (or fully) your response to what’s going on in your environment is a choice.
Would you believe me?
Would that be good news or bad?

I hope good news.

When you want something to get better- in any area of your life– you can choose to focus on what’s already going well and build on that OR you can dwell on the negative.

It is your choice.

Don’t get me wrong, the choice won’t always be easy.
The positive won’t always be easy to find.

With practice it gets easier and with the law of focus: what we focus on we find, your situation will improve.
What does the law of focus mean? When we seek out the positive aspects and place our attention on them we will find more of the positive to see and appreciate.

Will you try it this week?

Focus on what’s going well:

  • The parts of your body that feel good
  • The good moments you are having
  • The blessings you have
  • The food on your table
  • The safety and security you have

…and so on and so forth.

There is so much that is positive, when you come to think about it.

If you are struggling to meet your goals, pick ONE area for improvement and find 4 things that are going well.
Work on that one thing, get excited about the four and then repeat the process.

This process works.

Committed to your success,
Megan K and the team

A Little Inspiration

Hi everyone!

I’m coming to you with a little additional inspiration.
I know that many of us are several weeks into pursuing some New Year’s goals!
This is the time when motivation can start to wane (not always)…just in case, this one is for you.

Are you someone that has experienced a low point in life? Pretty much everyone has at some point, wouldn’t you agree? Sometimes you may not even realize you’re down or why; it’s just that you don’t feel right.

Even if you are someone that leads a fairly active life, maybe you even exercise but just don’t feel as good as you think you should. Maybe it’s just a result of not doing the right things.

Let me expand. I would like to share a story with you about one of our fabulous members, Kristie Fristad. Kristie has always been an active lady, but she was also one that wasn’t feeling up to par and relied on some serious caffeine to get her through the day. In her words,

“I led an active life, but found myself in a rut. My eating habits left much to be desired, I relied on caffeine to get me through the day, and my exercise was always cardio based and I had stopped seeing results. I was often tired, and was making lots of trips to the chiropractor because the weak muscles in my neck and shoulders kept pulling my spine out of alignment.”

Interesting that a woman as active as Kristie almost met the description of one that wasn’t active. But honestly, if you’re not exercising or eating properly eventually it just doesn’t work and it seems a waste of time. I notice especially that people I meet tend to get down quickly when they can’t lose weight.

Thankfully Kristie’s good friend Mara played a part in changing her world.

“When I joined, I was at a very low point … but it was hitting that low point that made me realize it was time to make a change, and not just talk about it. I talked to my good friend Mara Gollin-Garrett, who I knew was a FBBC trainer, to get more details since she’d been telling me for quite some time to come join her at Fitbody.

Honestly, I was terrified … so nervous this would be more than I could handle. After I joined, I have worked out with so many inspiring people that it makes it easy to keep coming back! In fact, it’s the days I just want to curl up on the couch that I always get the most out of the workouts. I know that if I can just walk in the door, the energy from the trainers and my fellow fitbodies will get me moving, working hard, and ready to get home and keep getting things done. I love it!”

That surely doesn’t sound like someone who is down, right? It’s amazing what a simple workout routine can do for you. So many people have shared the same experience. You just have to make the choice to change what’s bringing you down and do it.

You will be shocked when you see where Kristie is now. She is a completely new person, literally.

“I’m stronger … mentally and physically!

When I started in March, I wanted to lose 10 pounds and fit in my clothes better (which seemed impossible with many failed attempts in the past). Joining the LBD challenge was the best birthday present I could have ever given to myself! I came out of the LBD challenge having lost 15 pounds, 10.5 inches and 2.9% Body Fat. Then I jumped right into the summer body transformation challenge, and lost another 11.4 pounds, 4.75 inches, and 3.3% body fat. When that program finished, I could fit back into my wedding dress, and weighed less than I did my junior year of college!

As of my September assessment, I had dropped a total of 28.2 pounds, 17.3 inches, and 9.6% body fat in my 6 months as a FBBC member! More progress than I ever imagined possible!”

And this is why it means so much to us at FBBC to come to work everyday. But the thing is, it really isn’t work to us. We absolutely love what we do and we love being a part of all our fitbodies transformations.

In closing, Kristie had this to say:

“I found “me” again! And my biggest challenge has been keeping my wardrobe up with my body change! Seriously … each event that has comes up this year I’ve found I have to really plan ahead to be sure I have clothes to wear that fit the slimmer version of myself. :-)

Wow, we’re so proud.

If you want to up the ante in your results, we are always here.
If you need help, just reach out. If you need a pep talk, we’ve got that for you too .

Committed to your success,
Megan K and the team